life just got a little off balance
The husband and I are divorcing. We had a very ugly, ugly day yesterday and it did not end well. His alcoholism has come full circle and he now has to face the consequences of his often 1 bottle of Jack a nite habits. As of now I'm taking life day by day, moment by moment. Going to try and potty train my son (we're all prepared with an Elmo potty seat and Elmo undies), finish up all my swaps and sewing obligations, and enjoy the summer with my kiddos. My night ended up decent last nite by watching the Chicago Blackhawks win the Stanley Cup. That was pure awesome!
This is the start of a new life for me and my kids. I can't wait to see what life has is store for me now! People normally take the word divorce very hard, to me it's a sigh of relief.
Have no worries, I still plan on keeping up with all of my obligations, right now expect no changes. I will continue to keep in contact with everyone and keep y'all updated! I love my readers :) My world may have been shaken up but I'm here to stay.
Aww sweetie....I know you say a sigh of relief..but you need a hug just the same.. **HUGS**. If you need anything..I'm not that far away! Give those babies a hug for me too, k?
ReplyDeleteYou do what you gotta do! Stay true to yourself!
ReplyDeleteAudrey, I'm so sorry! It's so hard to go through something like this - but stay in touch with your friends and take it day by day. I'll be praying for you!!
ReplyDeleteMaybe we can trade notes on potty training - I'm trying to potty train my granddaughter (2 1/2) and it's not going so well. This is revenge for letting my day care lady potty train my daughter, I'm sure.....
Do what you need to do. I have had a friend in the exact situation this last year. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteTry the Dr Phil method, it worked for my son in less than three days!
I am a new follower to your blog, so I don't know if you have blogged about this, but I am so very sorry to hear about your husband--or ex. You are smart in separating yourself and your children from that. Blessings to you as you embark on this new stage of your life. :)
ReplyDeleteI, too, am new to your blog, but my heart goes out to you. I have been so looking forward to your star quilt along, but will totally understand if that needs to be put on the back burner. My prayers are with you and your children. It sounds like you are making some difficult, but correct decisions.
ReplyDeleteHi Audrey,
ReplyDeleteGood for you on your decision. You and your kids deserve to be happy, and you're doing the right thing! :) I'll be sending good thoughts your way, and if you need an ear let me know.
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So sorry about the divorce, hoepfuly things will get sorted out and you can start this new chapter in your life without too much hassle.
ReplyDeleteAnd good luck with the potty training.
With my children almost from the moment they could sit steady we put them on the potty for a minute. If they used it just by accident we praised them so they understood the concept and got used to the potty. By the time they had enough control to be potty trained the habit was so well ingrained that the whole business was pretty painless.
Audrey, so sorry to hear your news, it sounds like you made the best decision for you and your kids. I will be thinking of you x
ReplyDeleteSorry your having to go thru all that, but sounds like you have a good attitude on it!! Wishing you the best!
ReplyDeleteWhen life serves you lemons, make lemonade! I am not making light of your very difficult situation, but you have chosen the right path for you and your children. If positive thoughts could make your life easier, then you are there already, with your many web-friends giving you unconditional and heartfelt support. Making a happy family sometimes means cutting someone out of it. Try and stay positive and strong.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is saying they're sorry, but I'm not... I've been there, done that. I'm sorry you went through it all, and I hope your children are ok. But I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself, your children and your future! Congrats on this huge leap into your new life, and away from your soon-to-be "past life".
ReplyDeleteI have been there & done that as well...... you will be a stronger person on the other side of this. The process totally sucks but the outcome is so worth it. Hold your head high and always look to the future!!! Sending loads of GOOD thoughts your way!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry that you are having to go through this situation. Having went through a divorce(completely different circumstances) I know that you will come out of this a stronger woman and mother. Keep positive, keep moving forward, and wrap those precious little ones with your love. Good Luck on this next chapter in your life. If you need a bloggy break, we would all understand. I know, I'd be here waiting when you returned. Take care of you and your little ones, the rest will fall into place. Hugs and Prayers
ReplyDeleteAudrey, I am so sorry you are going through such difficult thing. There will be rough times ahead, but I know you have the strength to get through it. As the child of two alcoholic parents I commend you on the courage to remove yourself and your children from this situation. No child should see the things I saw, and feel the fear I felt. And, I do hope that your husband will find a way to pull his life together and get sober. Alcoholism is such a destructive force, and such a waste of a life. I'm sending all my good thoughts and wishes your way.
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking about your Audrey and hoping for the best for you. What ever is right for you and the children is the best thing to do. I'm sending you lots of {{hugs}} and I'm here if you need to talk.
ReplyDeleteI'm a new(ish) reader of your blog and am sorry your are going through such a difficult time.. I hope it is the start of better times to come and you get through the transition period ok! I am sure a lot of blog friends will support you through this.. so keep blogging!!
ReplyDeleteWishing you lots of blessings as you and and the kids move forward. Everything happens for a reason and there is a great future out there for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHang in there!! It may be rough for a while, but you will come out stronger on the other side of it all.
ReplyDeletetake care
SheilaC
It was a big step when I did it (for the same reason) 23 years ago and it's a big step for you - the right one - for you and the kids. You can make it.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and thoughts of a future your way, sorry for the sad times. Hugs, pokey
ReplyDelete((Hugs)) Audrey. I have often thought of how you were doing, and hope and pray that this turns out to be a wonderful change in your life.
ReplyDeleteI had something happen this year that most people thought would be awful, and it was very hard, but being on the other side is so much more fantastic than I could ever have imagined. I hope it works that way for you!